We moved Willem from the hospice bed to Em and Ba's king-size bed because I wanted Erin and I to be able to lie next to him while he passed. Willem passed at 9pm - right after his favorite cartoon had finished. Lili, Wyatt, mommy, and daddy were all lying in bed with him. Mommy asked for a glass of wine and daddy asked for a beer. The light in the bathroom flickered and I looked at Willem's chest and could see that his heart had stopped beating and that he was no longer struggling for air.
Willem waited to die until we were all comfortable and with him.
Rest in peace my son. My first born. We will miss you terribly.